Biking Break is Over

I have, due to my back injury (turns out to be a bulging disc), been largely off my bike since the end of October. It’s been a bummer because driving has really been stressing me out and I really miss the exercise and the fun of taking R out by bicycle. In the last month and a half we have been out just one time together and I’ve been out just one time solo. I’m finding it hard to get over the momentum of not riding, though I know I will. It will just take a couple rides and getting back in the habit of starting to get ready early enough not to be late when we go out.

Our one ride together was down to Fremont to do some Christmas shopping for my mom. I won’t say what we bought here because she may read this, but I think she’ll be pleasantly surprised. It wasn’t a long ride, though it felt good and we also got some walking in. I’ve finally gotten used to getting R on my back with the Ergo so I’m able to carry her without back pain and with less strain on the injury. This is much easier than hauling down the stroller, plus at least one place we went doesn’t have access that I know of except for stairs, so a stroller would have been difficult. The last time I went there with her we took the stroller with the detachable car seat, but that one is even harder to put on the bike so that was out. Carrying turned out to be fine and my back didn’t seem any worse the wear for it.

Last night was my first night out solo, and my first trip with out the e-assist. I rode down to my friend Barry’s new brewery, Lucky Envelope Brewing, and met my friend David to catch up. He’s been deep in an intensive class for the last 15 weeks and we hadn’t had a chance to catch up since about week five. It was great catching up and great finally sampling Barry’s commercial beer. I’d had his homebrew many times and it was always great, so I was not surprised that his commercially produced beer was as good if not better. On my way home I definitely missed the e-assist on the two big hills (although I intentionally didn’t take it so I could see what shape I was in and work on getting my lungs and legs back). I stopped for several minutes after biking up the first hill, and walked the second one, but even though I didn’t bike the whole way it will still help me get back in shape.

So, after the holidays I plan to get back to riding more seriously. Prior to my injury I was biking pretty much everywhere but to orchestra practice and that felt really good. I’m looking forward to doing that again.

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Reading Rainbow

Well, I started this post about a month ago, but for whatever reason got distracted and forgot to come back to it. So, here is what was meant to be my most recent post!

Reading Rainbow was a PBS kids show that ran from 1983 to 2006 and hosted by LeVar Burton, known for his role as Kunta Kinte on Roots and Geordi LeForge on Star Trek the Next Generation. Each episode included three parts, an illustrated story read aloud by a guest reader, a video field trip to some exciting location based on a theme related to that episode’s book, and recommendations from kids for books they loved. For me and many of my contemporaries it was a staple of our tv diet.

My sister and I grew up watching LeVar Burton take us on video field trips all around the country. The two that stick with me most are him visiting a recreation of a renaissance village and a behind the scenes look at Star Trek. Books covered the spectrum from glimpses at life in another country to science fiction adventures. It was one of our favorite shows and we watched it all the time.

Needless to say I was saddened when it went off the air – I still watched it occasionally, even in college. My understanding is that the station that produced it decided that they needed to spend more time on the “how’s” of reading than on instilling a love of reading in children. In my opinion a poor choice. But cancelled it was and it was the end of an era for children’s television.

Almost two years ago now LeVar Burton decided to make the push to bring Reading Rainbow back. However, with so many changes in technology he saw and opportunity for something new and exciting. This time, rather than doing a television show, Reading Rainbow would be reincarnated as an Internet app. Although somewhat problematic for reasons too lengthy to go into here (feel free to email and ask me) this was an exciting new opportunity to do something I thoroughly believe in – spread the love of reading to kids all over the world.

The vehicle for funding this new project was a Kickstarter campaign and as soon as I saw it I knew I had to back it. As you may know, one of the things about Kickstarter is that when you pledge your money you are rewarded with something from the campaign. This may be something like a personal thank you card, a book or piece of software, or a unique experience. In the case of Reading Rainbow there were many reward options, including all of the above. I looked through them and quickly decided which one: a live event with Patrick Stewart – Captain Picard from Star Trek – reading children’s books live with LeVar Burton. Although it took digging into my savings a bit I felt this one of a kind event was well worth a reduction to the bank account. After all, if there is anything after death it would be our memories we’d take with us, not stuff, so I will always choose exciting events when I can.

So, as you may have guessed, I’m writing about this now because I just attended the event. It was, perhaps, one of the most exciting events of my adult life. Ten years ago I never would have imagined I’d go see some of my favorite actors read books to a small group in an intimate venue. I have been looking forward to this ever since I clicked confirm on my Kickstarter pledge.

Making this even more exciting was, due to the intricacies of scheduling working actors, it worked best for them to to combine the event with Patrick Stewart with the event scheduled with William Shatner. So, I got to see both Star Trek captains at the same time! What an experience!

You may be wondering now what the event was like. Well, it was much like an episode of Reading Rainbow, but with some of the trappings of an event with celebrity speakers. LeVar was introduced by a nine year old girl,Danay Ferguson, who at the age of seven, founded Reading Heart, an organization that provides free books to underprivileged kids. Not only did she get to introduce LeVar, but he made a donation of several thousand copies of his children’s book “The Rhino Who Swallowed a Storm” and organized a book drive for members of the audience to donate as well, with every book donated being matched with another copy of his book.

The rest of the event went much like an episode of the tv show. The theme for the afternoon was, predictably, space, so it started out with a video of LeVar visiting Kennedy Space Center in Florida. It gave a brief history of space flight from Sputnik to Orion and ended on an optimistic note about the future of humans in space.

After the video was the main attraction. LeVar gave brief introductions and out came William Shatner (introduced as Bill) and Sir Patrick Stewart. Both got standing ovations. The first book they read was an endearing tale of a second grader convinced his teacher is from “Mars: Mrs. Martin is a Martian”. Told in the form of a diary our hero points out all the reasons his teacher must be from Mars – she  knows he is taking a second pencil from the box of sparkly pencils she handed around (for research on Martian pencils of course) without even looking, so she must be able to read minds; she never goes to the bathroom; and of course she is always at school before them and doesn’t leave when they do so she must live in her spaceship hidden in the teachers’ lounge. There are a number of other indications Calvin finds quite convincing, despite his research partner Bill’s skepticism. It was a very fun book, especially read in turns by the three actors.

Their second book was “Beware of Wolfgang”, a three little pigs tale starring three robot brothers and Wolfgang the Reclaimer, the big bad wolf character. The twist was the story was somewhat the opposite as far as the houses went. The first two brothers had fairly sturdy houses, but were tricked by Wolfgang, and I’ll leave it to you to find out the ending. It was quite a fun book and someday I’ll read it to R. Hopefully she enjoys it as much as I did.

The event ended with a “gameshow” in which random audience members were brought up to play a guessing game with the stars. The MC would hold up a card behind the audience member with the answer, all things from Star Trek, and the actor would give clues, much like the family game Taboo in which one reader has the answer and has to give clues without using the word. It was really fun to watch.

After the event I found out that the little red ticket they had given me when we checked in was an indication that I had been given a gift bag. Inside was a bookmark and a copy of the “Bionic Bunny” episode of Reading Rainbow, which is the one that takes place on the set of Star Trek the Next Generation in which we get to see behind the scenes of the show. Even better, it’s signed by Levar and Bill! How cool is that?

In any case, this was definitely a highlight of my year and I only wish R had been old enough to have memories of it when she grows up. Oh well, I can still tell her about it when I’m showing her all the “retro” Star Trek episodes later in life.

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Sasquatch Boardgame Festival

Not to be confused with the music festival, Sasquatch Boardgame Festival happens yearly in the fall around the end of October or beginning of November in Bellevue, WA. I’d been invited a couple times in the past few years but hadn’t made it. This year I finally decided to make it work.

It’s a five day festival running from Wednesday through Sunday where people get together to play games. One fun aspect is that they bring new games from the big German game festival that happens in the fall. Most have not been released in the US yet, so it’s fun to get to preview. One of the local game shops also brings some back to sell, so there is the opportunity to buy the ones you like. I ended up picking up two: Royal Goods and Undersea Adventure.

Royal Goods is a card game in which you are trying to build the best set of production facilities to make goods like coal, flour, fabric, clothes, glass, etc. You earn money throughout by producing goods and selling them, then building new buildings to make new goods. Everything is represented by cards, so goods get stacked as facedown cards and traded into the discard pile as money. It’s very fun and fairly quick once people know how to play. The first game was a little tough because I was tired, but after I got the hang of it it was really fun.

Undersea adventure is a game where you are trying to collect the most treasure from the bottom of the ocean before oxygen runs out. The treasure is represented by small tiles set in a path and you roll a die to see how far you move down. The die has the numbers 1-3 on it, but you jump over other divers so you can move up to five spaces. The thing is, each treasure you pick up slows you down on the return trip by one space. So there is the potential you could move zero spaces on a turn. The treasure also speeds up how fast the oxygen runs out, which each player causing a loss of one per treasure tile. It’s another quick game that is a lot of fun to play.

The other game I played that I really liked was called Chronicler, a quick to play civilization building game. It was pretty lightweight and quick as well, though I felt two games was probably enough so I didn’t buy it as well. It is, however, on my maybe soon list.

I had a great time and last week I went ahead and registered for next year. I’m already looking forward to it!

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Back injury

I’ve been suffering from back problems for at least five years now. The first time it went out I was bending down to grab my belt and I felt stabbing pain. Since then it’s given me problems once or twice a year, usually in fall or winter.

Two Sundays ago it decided to go out again. This time I didn’t do anything to precipitate it. I woke up in a bit of pain and by mid-morning I could barely walk. The pain brought me to my knees several times throughout the day. What a way to start off the week! I couldn’t pick up R, I could barely walk the fifteen feet to the bathroom, and I definitely couldn’t do the stairs.

I had been out at a boardgame festival during the day that day, and thankfully was still able to enjoy that as most of it was sitting down. Getting home was quite painful, as was hobbling down to the basement so I had my video games to play while waiting for Lurline to come home. The downside to that was that then I was stuck in the basement for the next two days.

Luckily we have a lot of great friends in town and an amazing babysitter. Lurline did take two days off work, but then we had help the rest of the week. Our babysitter was even so kind as to wheel me around the zoo in a wheelchair while wearing R. That was a great outing on Friday after being stuck in the house all week long!

By Saturday I was able to walk pretty readily and managed to watch R for a couple hours while Lurline went and did yoga. She was really thankful for that after an understandably stressful week. She did, however, take R for the rest of the day. Sunday I was able to get out of the house for some games at my cousin’s house and to watch the Sounders play in the playoffs. (That was a disappointing end to the season!)

I’m now able to lift R and take care of her solo for at least part of the day. I had help Monday and yesterday for half the day, but went totally solo on Tuesday. I did fine, but I was in pain by the end of the day. Today our babysitter is coming during the middle of the day so I can do acupuncture and some much needed physical therapy. My doctor is prescribing something that should help minimize the pain and she ordered an MRI for me, which happens at the end of next week. It would be nice to have some answers about the pain, especially if it rules out serious problems with my back. I’d like it if physical therapy is all I need. Thankfully I saw two doctors about it and both said it was highly unlikely I’d need surgery.

So, it’s been a rough 12 days but we made it through and I’m on the mend. Here’s hoping it keeps getting better and I’ll be back to normal by Thanksgiving.

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Ride with Kat and C

A week or two ago R and I got out on a fun ride with our friends Kat and her daughter C. It was our first time riding with them and it was a ton of fun. Fall weather hadn’t kicked in yet so we had a beautiful day out on the bike path.

I met Kat and C at their house and we headed down to the Burke-Gilman trail. We left right at naptime, but I wasn’t too concerned. R has so much fun on the bike that I wasn’t worried about her fussing and I figured she would probably take her nap at some point while riding.

We didn’t do a super long ride because of my time constraints. I wanted to be back home in time to be there when Lurline got home from work. She doesn’t get a ton of time with R during the week so I like to make sure we’re home when she is.

We headed north on the trail up to Matthews Beach Park. It’s a really pretty ride through the trees and was about the right distance for the time we had. I only do about 10 mph on my bike when I don’t use the motor and I wanted to do most of this under my own power to get some good exercise.

At that slow speed it was pretty easy to chat while riding. Kat and I got a good long conversation in while the girls enjoyed their time on the bikes (or in the trailer in C’s case). It was some of the best fun I’ve had biking since our ride to Seward Park a couple months ago. I’d like to get out on fun rides more often, and I’m really looking forward to one where I can take my regular bike instead of the cargo bike. Maybe a ride where R stays home and we can do something like ride to Redhook for lunch and a beer. Not that I don’t love riding with R, just that it would be nice to have a grownup ride sometime too.

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Equal parts rough and good

As the title implies, this week has been equal parts rough and good. The rough part was not getting out again. R and I both have a cold, so I was hesitant to go to baby storytime. She made the decision for us by having a rough naptime and then not waking up until it was too late to go. We didn’t really make it out of the house much together until yesterday.

Being cooped up was made worse by my mood. Out of nowhere I started feeling bad again about not working. I know that what I’m doing is just as important, and just as financially helpful, and most days I really feel that way. On the other hand, I’ve spent most of my adult life feeling like my work should make me money, get me a paycheck and benefits, and after many years of just squeaking by being under-employed or self-employed that feeling has taken a toll. Add to that the fact that my graduate degree has been pretty much 100% useless in getting me a decent job and I feel pretty bad about my efforts of the last 7 years. I also miss the daily interaction with co-workers or fellow students I had prior to finishing grad school. I need social time to be happy and that has been lacking during my days.

On the other hand, being a dad is the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done. I feel more accomplished at this than at any job I’ve ever had and the happiness I get from seeing her learn new things, play, and smile at me is unmatched by anything but my wedding day. It is rewarding in ways that no job ever could be and most days I’m really happy I’m home with her. I wouldn’t have it any other way.

I’ve been thinking a lot about how to combat this feeling of needing a paycheck and having a job. What I came up with is developing new skills. I’m working really hard to get my side of the garage in order so I can set up my woodshop. My dad gave me the basis of a decent one with his old tablesaw and chopsaw. Add my hand tools, circular saw, air compressor, nailgun, and a couple other power tools I’ve picked up at yard sales and such and I can make quite a bit out there in the garage. I’m planning to build a couple bookshelves, one for R and one to replace the decades old shelf my dad built for my childhood home that has, over 25 or so years, started to come apart. I have a pretty extensive collection of books and I really don’t want the shelf to collapse and potentially damage them.

I’m also trying to figure out how I could take another winemaking class at South Seattle College. I’m feeling more and more like I want to go back to the wine industry when I go back to work, so working through their certificate program and then doing WSU’s distance program would be really helpful in finding a job. Plus, it would help me make better wine at home, something I really love doing. I could also start drawing and painting again. I found out the community center nearby has a pottery studio and I’d like to start using that. There are a lot of options to fill the spare time I have – perhaps too many. I just need to pick one and start doing it.

Now to the good parts of the week. Obviously having my dad here Monday morning was pretty great. Wednesday night there was another Sounders game, this one the knockout round for the playoffs. I took my friend Brett with me and we watched the team finally beat LA! It was an awesome game, probably the best I’ve seen all season, and I left feeling pretty good.

Thursday morning I went down to Fremont for a morning appointment and decided to try and experiment. I took the baby carrier with me and when I was done with my appointment I put R on and wore her. It was naptime just then and my hope was she would fall asleep in the carrier and I could do something for myself. And she did! It was pretty wonderful. I went to Pie and enjoyed a breakfast pie and cup of coffee without having to entertain R the whole time. It was probably the most relaxing morning I’ve had in weeks. I had hoped to swing by the bookstore to get the sequel to the book I’ve been reading, but unfortunately they weren’t open yet after I finished my time at Pie. R was just waking up and though she looked pretty chill I was hesitant to hang around the neighborhood too long in case she had a breakdown. Biking with a screaming baby did not sound appealing.

That afternoon I had lined up a babysitter, the idea being to go to a boardgame convention I registered for, but the cold was really getting me, so I opted in stead to lie in bed and read. I finished my book and got some good rest in. By evening I was ready to press wine with David and Jamie. We managed to get everything done in about 2.5 hours, and it would have been faster if we had realized sooner that the ratchet system needed to be cleaned up to work properly. Once we did that we flew through the rest of the grapes. It was a fun evening and really nice to be social with friends.

Today has started pretty well as well. R was happy in her crib a bit longer than usual and when she did start making noises for me she calmed right down when I picked her up. She played for a bit and then it was breakfast time. We missed Kindermusik because she clearly needed her nap before we could leave. Plus, she’s still sniffling and sneezing and I was worried about getting the little 3 or 4 month old in the class sick. We’ll do a make-up next week I hope and still get our Kindermusic time in. I’m planning to bike to the library to pick up a book on hold and pick up some coffee beans while we’re out. If we have time I’ll head to the frame shop with the photos of R we’ve been meaning to frame for months now. Sometimes even errands help the day feel better. Tonight I’ll head to the East Side for the convention and I think the day will end pretty well.

I’m looking forward to the weekend. The convention continues through Sunday and Sunday night the Sounders are in the semi-finals. I’m taking my friend Kat and she’s always a fun companion for the games.

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Visit from Daddo

When my sister and I were little we called our dad “Daddo”, until my sister Caitlin heard someone say the word daddio, then of course it switched for her. She was always doing things like that, finding funny little things to say. When the show Murphy Brown was on TV, even though we never watched it, she decided that would be a fun thing to call me. I love my sister.

We’ve asked the various grandparents what they want to be called. For the first several months the grandpas were just “Grandpa”, but when we visited my dad this summer the idea of Daddo came up and it kind of stuck. So, now instead of Grandpa, we’ve started calling him Daddo for short.

In any case, he visited over the weekend. It was a great visit, not just for seeing him, but for R to get some good time in with her Daddo, and for us to get a custom baby gate for the top of the stairs. I had sent him measurements awhile back and he built this beautiful gate that sits on hinges and has a clever latch. It has made going up and down the stairs so much easier. We can easily keep R off them when we’re up here and no longer have to completely pick up and move the gate. It has a magnetic catch so that when it’s open it won’t swing closed so we can easily know when it’s open. It’s pretty great.

Dad and I also got some good time in one-on-one. There was a Sounders game on Sunday, a big game deciding whether they made it into the playoffs or not. I had two tickets so he came along. It was his first pro game since the Portland Timbers had their inaugural season in the 70s, so that was pretty cool to share with him. It also had some of the most exciting soccer I’ve seen all season. The LA playoff game Wednesday night rated just as high, so maybe the season is finally picking up. In any case, the game was a blast and it was fun to share with my dad.

Dad was also helpful getting some stuff done around the place. He’s starting an antique business and took a couple pieces away that we didn’t want any more and helped move the chair that’s going into R’s room for us to sit in while we read to her and do bedtime. In all it was a really wonderful visit. He got great time in with the whole family and we got a hand with some stuff we’d been needing to do for a while.

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Getting out

Lately it’s been difficult to get out of the house with R, and by lately I mean basically since she started eating solid food. It was worst in the beginning. Meal time would take an hour to an hour-and-a-half, so that accounted for much of her awake time. It was made even worse when she would wake up from her nap and be contently playing in her crib. I want to promote independent play, so I leave her in her room when she does that. Sometimes that lasts for nearly an hour, so between that and mealtime it meant she was only awake and able to do something fun for 30-60 minutes. Very hard.

Here time spent awake while not eating or playing in her crib post-nap is increasing. Meal time has decreased to 30-45 minutes, leaving more like 1-2 hours to get out. Somehow, though, that always seems to disappear. Either I need to keep getting things done that I couldn’t finish while she naps, or she gets fussy or needs a bottle.

My goal this week is to get out at least once during the day, even if it’s in the afternoon. Ideally it would be mid-day to break up the time spent inside the house a bit more, so I plan to start at least taking a 30 minute bike ride. She loves being on the bike, I love being on the bike, and it generally makes both of us feel good.

I would also like to start getting together with some of the stay-at-home dads on the Facebook and Meetup groups I’m part of. It seems like every time someone posts an event, though, it’s right at or very near naptime. It’s a little frustrating. I need to start planning outings myself and invite people and hopefully that will fix this problem. I’m really craving interaction with other adults who are not my wife, so this would be great.

Hopefully this week sees R and me out of the house a little more. We do have swim lessons one evening a week, so at least there is that, but that’s mostly just playing in the water with the kiddos. Fun, but not really interactive in an adult way.

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Wine!

Last year I convinced my friends David and Jamie to go in on some grapes with me to make wine. Well, “some” might be an understatement. We purchased 250 pounds of Sangiovese, enough to make roughly 18 gallons of wine. Or, in other words, six and a half cases. It was a really fun process. Lots of work up front and at the end, with some check ins throughout the year.

We decided to do it again this year, but this time increase our production. We knew we wanted to make something else, and probably do two different varietals this year, both for variety and so we could do some blending. So, I contacted the wine maker we purchased our grapes from last year and ordered, well, 600 pounds of grapes! We opted for 300 of Malbec and 300 of Cabernet Sauvignon. So, last week the Malbec came in and we got started.

Wine making is pretty straightforward. You crush the grapes (done for us by the winemaker), add yeast, stir them periodically, then press the juice out. After what’s called the primary fermentation (the conversion of sugar to alcohol by yeast) is finished, you do a secondary fermentation using bacteria to convert malic acid to lactic acid (called malolactic fermentation, or, in the wine world, ML). Then, it’s just aging. Red wine is typically aged for a year or more on oak. We don’t have space for a barrel, so instead we use glass bottles called carboys with chunks of oak added in.

Why oak you ask? Well, twofold. For one, it adds complexity of flavor. Oak from different parts of the world adds different characteristics to the wine. American oak, for example, adds hints of vanilla, and Hungarian oak adds peppery flavors. In addition, aging in oak increases the tannins in wine, a key component for longevity. Tannins are what cause that dry sensation on your pallet when drinking a red wine and are key to keeping wine good over the years. (Incidentally, in beer making, hops add the tannins, and India Pale Ale – IPA – was originally created to have high tannins so it stayed fresh during the long shipment from Great Britain to their colonies in India, thus the extreme hoppiness.)

In any case, enough about the process. Last month we decided to bottle our Sangiovese in order to make room for the 2015 vintage coming in. It took most of an afternoon, siphoning the wine out of the carboys into the bottles, spraying a small amount of argon and nitrogen into the top (to displace the oxygen so the wine lasts longer), and corking the bottles. It may sound like a lot of work, and it is, but it is also a lot of fun. In the end we had enough wine that we’ll each take home two and a half cases and all we need to do now is label it.

Bottling homemade Sangiovese

Bottling the Sangiovese

Shortly after we bottled the Malbec came in. I picked it up from Woodinville in two food grade plastic garbage cans and David came and helped me unload it. He had to run to beat traffic home and Jamie wasn’t able to make it, so it was up to me to pitch the yeast. It’s a bit of a process to pitch yeast. You have to heat water to a certain temperature, add nutrients, let it cool for a bit, add the yeast, let it activate, add some of the grape juice, let it cool some more. This is all to acclimate the yeast to its new environment so it doesn’t get shocked and go dormant. In all it took me probably two hours to get the yeast ready and pitched (winemakers call it “pitching yeast”, although I don’t know the origins of that phrase). Then it was just a matter of time.

On this last Sunday we pressed the grapes. Last year we had waited until the primary fermentation was complete before pressing. That meant we had to do it on the wine’s schedule and we were pressing one weeknight until almost 10pm. Waiting is common practice, but not 100% necessary. If you have the color and flavor you want earlier it is perfectly reasonable to press and let the primary finish in tank (or in our case, carboys). So this year we opted to do things on our schedule. The color was already looking beautiful due to some enzymes added during the crush that increased color extraction, and the flavor was nice as well. I can tell you, crushing during the day is much more pleasant than late at night in the cool fall evening.

So, now that we have the grapes crushed there is around 21 gallons of Malbec bubbling away in my basement. In about another week it will be ready for ML and we’ll be well on our way to our 2015 vintage. In the meantime the Cabernet should come in and we’ll do it all over again. Like I said, a lot of work, but also a lot of fun.

Malbec wine in carboy, home winemaking

Almost done. That’s 19 of the 21 gallons bubbling away.

Malbec wine grapes ready to be pressed

Malbec ready to be pressed

Baby checking out the pressing of wine grapes

R checks out the grapes ready to be pressed. She was enthralled by the process.

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Crawling

Over the last week or so R has been trying reallly hard to crawl. She managed to start scootching along, mostly backwards. She did this sometimes on her belly, sometimes on her bottom. It was pretty impressive, but she quickly started getting frustrated with not being able to get exactly where she wanted.

Last week R made the leap from needing me to put her into a sitting position to sometimes being able to sit up. This week she began doing so consistently. At the same time she was learning to sit up and lie down she started desperately trying to move forward. Slowly she began figuring it out and the last two days she has been very close, especially when trying to reach my iPad or phone. Today she succeeded, and succeeded  more than once! It was quite wonderful.

This will definitely change  everything. The baby gate we have is not really suitable for the stairs so I’ll be struggling to get it in and out all the time. My dad has offered to make us a custom gate that is on hinges and will open more easily. I’m looking forward to that. In the meantime I’ll be extra cautious opening and closing the gate and keep an eye on her so she doesn’t try and climb up it.

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